So a TLDR for the background of this story. My husband purchased his parents house when they got into financial difficulties and they continue to live in it. We then purchased a house under my name so that we could get a mortgage. For context his parents house is like 5 bedrooms with loads of space and our house is 3 bedrooms but not much in the way of space.
We now have a child and are rapidly outgrowing this house but because he owns his parents house, we can't afford to buy a bigger house or expand this one.
I feel like he doesn't listen when I talk about the situation at all. His mom doesn't say anything about it ever, has never mentioned it really and just general pretends that everything is fine. The problem is that his parents can't keep up with the size of the house that they live in. His mum keeps buying crap off the Internet and every room is filled to the brim with junk, they function out of the kitchen, living room, bathroom and bedroom and that's essentially it.
I get that they have lived in the house for years and years but they have to see that they are drowning in it while we are tripping over ourselves in our house.
Am I crazy for getting annoyed by this situation? It drives me crazy and I'm starting to think it will be the downfall of our marriage. A husband who won't stand up to his mother is always going to be a husband that won't stand up to his mother.
Should I stay and try to figure out a way to be okay with it or should I make a move that will improve the homelife for my child and I?