I have been married to my husband for 7 years. I have two children and he has four, all from previous relationships. I am not allowed to attend any events on his family’s side, as his kids refuse to allow me to come. My husband refuses to share any information about his kids with me and has asked me not to share anything about my kids with him. I struggle with this as I have anxiety and the keeping everything inside makes me even more anxious. My husband received a letter from his daughter yesterday and although he opened it right in front of my, refused to tell me what the letter said. His kids have bounced in and out of his life and the child that sent the letter hasn’t really talked to him in almost five years. I am really struggling with this. We got into an argument last night and he told me that if I am unhappy I should just leave. Now keep in mind he says he loves me and does not want to lose me, but if I don’t accept the not talking about each others kids terms, then I should just leave. Advice is much appreciated…
