Hi, I have been with my now ex boyfriend for 2 years. It has not been perfect because he has jealousy and possessives tendencies. He also tends to take it out on me when things are going bad for him.
He is currently unemployed (has been for 4-5 months) so he has been more mean to me lately.
Last Thursday it was his birthday so I made a reservation at a very nice place, I bought a birthday gift for him but as soon as he entered the place I could sense he was in a bad mood.
He started complaining about the place, about how loud it was, about me and also started ignoring me to be on his phone.
At one point of the night I went to the bathroom to cry. By the end of the night I was so upset that I said to him “fine, then you can take care of your own bill” and I left the place but I immediately regret it so I went back to the place and paid for the bill.
He was furious, he told me that he never wanted to see me again, that I ruined his birthday, that I’m needy and codependent and he doesn’t like anything about me.
He abandoned me at the place. I cried for 3 days tried to talk to him but he is just ignoring me and blocking me.
I don’t know why I did to deserve this. He doesn’t have a lot of friends, so I’m always planning fun things, I have 2 jobs, I have a career, I’m pretty and my only problem is that I am codependent but I have been in therapy for that.
My friend says that he is just punishing me and he will be back to give me the chance to “apologize” but that day he was so furious, he says he never wants to see me again.
I think he is done with me. He says I disrespected him.
