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I thought that I won't never meet my crush again that's why I stopped being friends with him but I have to see him at school again.What should I do if I meet with him??

But this time...I really think I can get over him

2 hours ago, jul-els said:

The feeling isn’t mutual. Accept it and let it go for your own well being and self respect. Holding on to it is just self inflicted torture. Don’t do that to yourself. 

Yeahh I think I should let go him

2 minutes ago, Kwothe28 said:

You already knew he doesnt like you that way. So you shouldnt have pushed that far. 

 

Yeah I knew it. But I got the wrong idea that he might like me back. Maybe cuz he's so kind to me.

9 hours ago, yogacat said:

 Perhaps it's time to let go and divert your attention to someone else?

It sounds easy but it's impossible.I already tried it!!

7 hours ago, Jaunty said:

This approach kind of left the guy cornered.  Not a good set up.   

Then what should I do??

10 hours ago, boltnrun said:

Is this the same guy, who you made your "final decision" about a couple weeks ago?

I wouldn't call it a "rejection". More like, he doesn't seem to feel the same way. 

yeah I couldn't give up on him

So does that mean he rejected me??

I confess my crush!!! I told him that I like him and I said this "But it's just how I feel and I don't wanna make u uncomfortable, Also I don't expect an answer, so don't let it bother u".And he only replied me "okay". Is that a rejection???I can't understand!!!

Having a secret crush really sucks.I won't ever do it again.I'm going to stop liking and end my hopeless one sided love.Perhaps,I might end up regretting this decision.Maybe I can't get over him and might like him again.But still,I'll try.I'll stop hurting myself with false hopes.I got to know that he's kind and sweet to everyone.

3 hours ago, PamelaLetendre said:

Yes, It's fine to have a crush.

But it's hurtful

9 hours ago, Capricorn3 said:

I think he knows you like him but sadly, I don't think he's interested (sorry). I think if he was interested he would have sent you friendly messages by now, showing interest of some kind, (imo).

Thinking it might be better to remain friends.You think I haven't thought that?Even so,cuz I like him,cuz I can't hide it.Still I don't wanna lose him as friend.He's a good friend.

11 hours ago, yogacat said:

Nobody is going to hate you for expressing your feelings.

 

Yeah I decided to hide my feeling,but that doesn't mean they were gone

8 hours ago, Capricorn3 said:

I think he knows you like him but sadly, I don't think he's interested (sorry). I think if he was interested he would have sent you friendly messages by now, showing interest of some kind, (imo).

But he sent me friendly messages despite I always had to start the conversation first

7 minutes ago, yogacat said:

You don't have to put on any specific expression in front of him but do try to steer this in a more personal direction and if he isn't picking up on that, soon you will stop having anything to say to him that isn't about homework, tests or other superficial topics that will get very boring very quickly. 

 

I know about him a lot.Also he's kind and caring guy.I text with him often so that I can know about him more.But sometimes he replies so late,sometimes I got reply after nearly one week.And I can't wait that long and I felt disappointed and sometimes I didn't get to text him anything.

9 minutes ago, yogacat said:

Texting about an exam is hardly the same as asking to get to know someone in a personal way. Plus, it sounds like she may be interested in taking things to the next level, so just texting about exams isn't going to do much to further that.

So what should I do to get closer with him.He's also my friend but I really nervous to talk with him in person cuz  it's hard with all those butterflies in my stomach.

8 minutes ago, catfeeder said:

Telling him you like him and want to get to know him, at this point, would be redundant. 

 

I wanna confess my feelings to him but at the same time I don't want to.Cuz I'm more afraid he'd hate me rather than rejecting me.

3 minutes ago, Andrina said:

Good luck and let us know how it goes.

We had an exam today.I didn't get to talk in person.I waited all day for his message asking if I did well.But he hasn't send me anything as I expected.So I sent him"Did u do well today" and he hasn't replied me yet.What should I do??I feel disappointed

My crush and I are friends.We often text each other,despite I always have to start the conversation first.But I don't know what to say him in person and what kind of expression I have to put in front of him cuz I like him so much and I'm so nervous and excited in front of him.What should I do??Should I go and talk to him in class?I really have no idea that what should I say him☹️

I had a fight with my best friend.And we haven't been talked each other for two week.I heard that she's gonna transfer school.Should I text her and say goodbye?Or what else should I tell her??

Why my crush reply my text so late??I know he's not ignoring me cuz we're friends.And he's also so kind.Maybe cuz he's very busy or he don't wanna talk with me.I can't angry at him cuz I like him so much c and I'll just say it's okay when he reply me.

I wanna to confess to my crush but when if I tell him and get dumped?What if we can't even stay friends?What should I do??

I told my crush that I like someone else.And I decided to tell him the truth today.But should I tell him that I don't like that someone anymore or should I tell him that I was joking around??

I liked a guy in my class.I talked to him and became his friend.He's so sweet and nice to me.That's why I couldn't give up on him.But actually he's sweet and and nice to everyone.I feel jealous a bit that I'm not the special one for him.Sometimes I hate him for sweet and nice to me.Cuz I might get my hopes up thinking he could end up liking me.But getting my hopes up always betrayed me.Also I know very well that he doesn't like me.He didn't even look at me even when I was in front of him.So should I confess him or hide my feelings and be his friend???