I do really appreciate everyone’s input on this even if some comments are a little hard to hear I know I put myself in this position. After reading some I just want to confirm even on the morning he left he was very affectionate towards me and (next day) he did message saying he can’t wait to see me again. He made many suggestions even after ‘sex’ that he wanted a weekend away together to explore and do some fun activities. The messages just dried up after that, my open questions were just left with closed answers and now I’m left confused.
Yes, he didn’t owe me anything, we weren’t in a relationship but surely it was building towards ‘something’? I made it clear my intentions were to build something and not just have a one night stand.
A simple message to say ‘I’m sorry, it’s not for me’ would have sufficed. I would move on and just accept that. Instead I’m left feeling confused and now anxious to even date again. That’s sucks.
il keep you updated if anything changes but for now thanks for your help, It means a lot.