Hello,
I am currently in a long distance talking stage. The girl that I am talking to lives about 3 hours away, and I see her on most weekends. A few days ago, I went to a party and unfortunately made a mistake I regret deeply. I hooked up with another girl. (For context, I am in high school). I regret what I did. I found out that there are some videos of me and this girl floating around, and I was sent the videos today by two of my “somewhat” friends. I am worried about the videos getting in the wrong hands, and possibly being sent to my talking stage. For context, my talking stage has little to no mutual connections via social media. Also, few people know that we are talking. (Some of my friends even think that we stopped) What I need advice on is how to get these videos deleted, and to make sure they don’t get sent to my talking stage. I understand that I messed up, I just need help. Do I confront the people who have the videos, and tell them to delete them? How do I make sure they don’t spread? I don’t want these being used as potential blackmail. I feel like the chance of someone sending them are low, since nobody knows who she is. I just want to make sure nothing happens in the future. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
