I do have morals, dude. Counter productive to place a blame in a situation like this. Feelings are rarely black and white. Sometimes it can be hard to tell what you actually want. I'm human and still figuring things out. I have never cared for someone as much as her. Hence why I didn't realize i should take that as a red flag.
When I first heard about it, it sort of bothered me, but i was able to change my focus and not care. But now that we are super close and I have very strong feelings for her, it does bother me. I did not know in the beginning that it would bother me this much.
If I did. I would have handled our relationship very differently in the beginning.