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  1. I appreciate all of the responses. I’ve checked with other friends to trace back my night and I do remember it all accurately this most definitely did not happen. As for the guy… I did in fact cut him off and will no longer be speaking with him. I figured one lapse in judgement on his part could be excused but clearly I was wrong and it has been corrected. I’ve known him for many years and would’ve never expected this from him. Hence why he was not immediately removed following his confession.
  2. I’d like to preface that I (28F) am in a very rocky relationship. I frequently confide in my best friend (27F) and her boyfriend (28M) who I have been friends with for a long time. To give context her boyfriend confessed he had feelings for me a few months ago. I very clearly stated I was not interested and that I think he has misplaced his feelings for me as they had been going through a rough patch. He dropped it and didn’t bring it up again. Fast forward and we all went out together a few weekends ago drinking. I ended up pretty intoxicated and my memory is hazy but I was definitely not blacked out. Following our night out he reached out and asked if I was okay and stated I had been pretty confusing. When I asked he said he would tell me later. I never brought it up and then a few days later he brings it up by specifically stating he was waiting until I was at work and he was away from his gf. Long story short he ended up saying that the entire night I was giving him looks and that I grabbed him at one point dancing and started kissing his neck and whispering. I am not a very outspoken person especially when attracted to someone. On top of that he said I must’ve been mad at my boyfriend which I do not recall ever being upset with him. We were in our local bar with plenty of others that knew both of us. I find it hard to believe no one saw and no one said anything to his gf or my bf about it. I’d also like to note that I have genuinely never felt anything more than platonic towards him. I don’t recall seeing him frequently that night and I remember being with friends pretty consistently all night (I hate being by myself in a bar.) The more I think about it things don’t seem to add up and I’m questioning if he may have made this up to get me to confess to having feelings or to convince me I have feelings for him. Any opinions would be appreciated. I can also provide more context as needed just ask. Thank you!
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