Yesterday I was discharged from hospital after many months of mystery as to why sex is so painful I was diagnosed with a lifelong STD. My current boyfriend (M29) is the only sexual partner I have ever had whilst he has had many one night stands and had MANY sexual partners and alot of unprotected sex with various people. So the only person I could have contracted the STD from would be him. However despite us talking extensively about this whilst I was in hospital where he was incredibly supportive, apologetic and caring I have come home to a complete a***hole.
We had a big fight last night where he stated that because I now have an STD he is "at risk". He blamed me and was completely dillusional to talk to claiming he couldn't possibly have it because he's asymptomatic (which is untrue as he has all the same symptoms, rash, pain, blisters etc). I couldn't reason with him and I just don't know what to do. Despite my positive test results he's deluded himself into thinking I have some mystery illness that can't be cured, which is 100% impossible. The part that is most upsetting is how he's turned this into a blame game when I am perfectly fine with accepting that an STD has been diagnosed as it won't affect anything so long as we both take our medication.
For now I've asked for space until I recover as the stress of his behaviour is making me even more ill. Should I end this relationship?
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks
