Sausagedog

I’m not sure why just because of the distance and me wanting to know that he’s safe. He was thinking about breaking up because we started not appreciating the time we had together and not spending quality time together, he also likes his time alone and at the time we were spending a lot of time together. Since then though we’ve been in a good place and he’s been more affectionate than ever

In person we’ve been really good recently and we’re actually going away on our own trip in 2 weeks. I think it’s the combination of the distance, little contact and not knowing what he’s doing that’s worrying me.

He didn’t promise a specific number he just said he would call and text whilst he’s there. We usually go 5 days without seeing each other but it’s the little contact and distance that is making me anxious

For context me and my bf have been together for 3 years now. He’s never been a big texter or caller but we almost broke up a couple months ago, and since then he’s usually called almost every day. He went on holiday yesterday morning in the early hours with his best friend and is away for 5 days. We spoke the night before and he said he would call me whilst he’s there and text me which reassured me a lot as little contact makes me worry. He arrived yesterday morning and didn’t text me when he landed which he said he would, so I text him and he text back to say they had got there and then he rang me very briefly to say they were there and to tell me a funny story from their plane journey. That was yesterday lunchtime and I’ve not heard from him since. I don’t expect continuous texting whilst he’s on holiday but I thought he might have messaged me good night or good morning? (Although that isn’t something we usually do anyway). Am I jumping the gun and overthinking this lack of contact? I’m aware I have bad separation anxiety