Mertie101

Thanks to everyone that responded. I think it’s better to call it off with him and go my own way. I always felt deep down that I needed to be somewhere I’m actually appreciated and not treated like a side wheel.

Yeah I guess a small stupid part of me thought he would leave her someday and be with me. It seems pretty unlikely as they've been dating for 4 years.

He says he might be bisexual but also doesn't want to talk about these things and gets uncomfortable when I bring that up. I'm actually on dating apps and get lots of matches and he told me he was OK with me seeing other people but when I talk of them he usually gets jealous and offended. But he doesn:t care about how I feel when he talks of his girlfriend. He told me he could become a friend and give me sexual intimacy but not emotional intimacy. I told him that was what I actually needed. I'm a pretty decent guy in terms of looks but I guess I was in an emotional starvation and he fills that whole by spending time with me everyday. But this thing we have prevents me from dating and finding potential boyfriend. I can't seem to do with or without him.

Hello, About a month ago I met this guy at my gym and immediately had a crush. After we hit it off, he took me outside for a coffee but then he told me he had a girlfriend and she was very possessive of him. He talked to ehr on the phone and lied about being late home. Then we started seeing each other on and off and had sex a couple of times and I fell for him when he started to send me text messages or call me throughout the day. He told me he wasn't gay and only had sex with another man before me once when he was drunk. But lately he's been distant to me and frequently tells me about how much he loves his girlfriend when he walks with me. He apologized a couple of time for praising his girlfriend by me but still does it time to time and tells me he's not comfortable being physical with me outside. Normally he would drop me off at home but today I was heartbroken that he left me in the middle of dinner to pick up his girlfriend. I texted him tonight and said I needed time to think this through. What advice would you give me?