PunkPixie89

We have spent a total of about 2 weeks in person, we were supposed to see eachother next week but due to finacial reasons we could not, our plan was to see eachother every 2 months for 2 weeks.

I met a lovely man online, the only issue being he stays quite a distance from me, we in different cities. We have had a thing for 4 months and in that time have spent some time together which is always lovely, we have an amazing connection, we have so much in common, get along so well and everything just feels so natural and he has opened up to me emotionally, which I appreciate. However, things the past month have taken a bit of a turn, he's in a very bad place finacially and has taken on a second job which does take up a lot of his time which I understand. We eventually had that "Relationship" convo, he unfortunately said he can't be in one now or carry on with this as he has a lot on his plate right now and needs to focus on getting his life on track. I told him I understand and asked him if the distance wasn't a factor if things would be different and he said "The Distance can be very hard. Let's see how it goes. Thank you for understanding " I know he does like me, but I am assuming he does not like me enough... in my mind if you really like someone you try make it work, but maybe I'm thinking too much with emotions and not logical? Is he just essentially letting me down easy because he does not want to hurt me and realised he does not like me enough? We haven't spoken in a few days, and I do miss him which really sucks, a part of me want to tell him I miss him but I won't do that. Any advice would help. I am carrying on with my life and keeping busy, it's just really tough because I keep thing of how things could've been.