Me and my partner have been together for 4 years now, live together and overall relationship is good. I’m just looking for advice on certain things he’s started doing, for example he will sit there and constantly smack my forehead, pinch my arms,pull my hair I’ll ask him to stop, he won’t, I’ll move away hell follow, he’ll randomly kick me in the legs ( hard enough to give me dead legs) and again I’ll ask him why and tell him to stop, he won’t, recently he’s been doing these little things constantly and my patience is wearing thin, so I’ve pushed his legs off me and he really didn’t seem to like that, threw a cup at me and I’ve ended up with a bruised eye and cut lip, he then blamed it all on me making me out to be the bad one for retaliating. He will then go out for hours and come back acting like nothing happened. The time recently he’s gone to his parents and Sister and told them I’m violent? (not once did his family question why my eye was bruised and lip was bust) When in my eyes all I did was retaliate to the situation he had created. I can tell his family believe him with how there acting towards me I just don’t know where to go from here.
