Hi and thanks for responding. We both were tested and clean before we got married. I have a difficult time having the huge amount of faith in him and believing his theories about his positive HSV tests because he cheated on his ex-wife and ex-girlfriend and never admitted it to anyone except me and his father, who passed this past year. I just don’t think I can delude myself on this big of a scale. I just wanted to make sure and get some outside views that I wasn’t missing something.