I (21) have been dating my boyfriend (28) for 6 months. He is generally quite awkward and honest which I found endearing at the beginning of our relationship. He has no prior relationship experience and behaves younger than his age. I was originally fine with this since it acted as a bridge for our age gap. However as of late, his behaviour is increasingly childish. He is originally from Singapore and does not work but he is in his final year studying the same course as me. He considers his national service to be the most monumental moment of his life and brings it up at any opportunity he can, believing that the lessons taught by national service is the reason he was able to find a girlfriend. We frequently play video games together and watch movies on most nights of the week. However when our university holiday started, he asked me to play multiple times 3-4 sessions each being about 2 hours long. I think this is excessive, as much as I love to play with him, I need my much vested alone time. But he continues to text me everyday to ask if I can play. He makes childish and insensitive jokes about women and race, which I foolishly shrugged off at the time, completely my fault. He takes pride in being able to cuss and slur in multiple languages due to his multicultural background. Lately I am so irritated. I get incredibly angry just seeing his text notification. I find him so insufferable and lacking in maturity, but I ultimately brought this relationship upon myself, and now I desperately want out. I haven't communicated these feelings with him but I have no intention of fixing anything because I don't want to continue this relationship. I find it difficult to be kind and friendly towards him and can only respond dismissively as of late but he doesn't seem to catch on to the change in atmosphere. I just feel burnout and like I am dealing with a child all the time despite his age. Am I being unreasonable to want to end the relationship without warning?
