Kwnantia

If you mean what i find in him attractive is his character most. His has good manners, he respects. I have never heard him say mean things about others and we talk he was careful what to say. His friends i know are good guys too. I like that he is not a player or a womanizer. He seems like the type of guy that when he will fall in love, he will be loyal and respectful to his girl. His appearance is nice too but his character wins. I have years to spoke to a guy who is like him.

Thank you for your responses. I am pretty sure that he won't come and talk to me by himself. He is not sure about himself and this is the reason i don't go talk to him all the time because I'm afraid he will be so nervous that he could not keep the conversation going. He knows I'm older than him and I understand that he is afraid to ask me out for rejection. With the other people is shy too. Sometimes in the music band he distances himself from the others and sits alone. If he talks, I see him preparing what to say before he speaks. He told me six months ago that his only hobby is playing videogames all day and going to the gym. I told him that all day playing is too much but in a funny way. Its a difficult task with him because of his shyness. I'm shy too but not this much.

I haven't asked a guy because they first ask me. In this case, he is very shy so I know I can't wait for him to ask me out. I don't know how to ask properly a very shy guy without him be protective of himself because he may be afraid how to respond to me. But I have talked to him a few times and he always doesn't ask about me but he continues talking about him, he doesn't stop the conversation soon.

Thank you for your response. I know him about 1 year now. I met him through my cousin who is in the music band too and we chat a little. I noticed him looking at me intently 3 weeks ago. For the first time he joined our company and come walking with us. I see him in person once a week. I dont think he has a girlfriend but he is very private and shy so i am not 100% sure. The biggest fault is what you said too that he doesn't continue a conversation.

I know him through our involvement in music and mutual acquaintances. He is 21 and I am 26. He is very shy but he is everything I look for in a man in terms of his character. I know he is five years younger but he is such a good and responsible guy. I have noticed that he also stares intently but because he is very shy, he doesn't do anything else. I have started to talk to him but I noticed that he does not continue the conversation, he does not ask a you. For example, I was asking him about his college but he didnt ask me nothing if i ever go to college and what did i study there. I don't know what to do since he doesn't manifest either!