Tomjensen

I only tend to see her on one of the days I go, but even anticipating that isn't great as we used to train together in that gym, but as time goes by im sure the feelings will ease off. I could go later on but its just my schedule

I am doing exactly that, I did see her in the gym after we spoke but I avoided her and all contact, it was the conversation I have which opened up alot of feelings and generally made me feel like I have taken 20 steps backwards. Funny how the mind works and almost can play tricks on you.

I dont have to go to the same gym but it is one of the only ones in my area that is good, I know a few people there to so I wouldn't like to change which is annoying

I am Male 34 and I broke up with my Female 36 ex around 6 months ago. Our relationship was very up and down, but at the end I ended things with her. It was a 4 year relationship and also quite toxic. We see each other in the gym from time to time. I spoke to her the other day and felt like I gave her alot of my time and energy. she told me she went away, has been going out etc I din't really say much back as I didn't want to have a conversation with her. She is toxic and I know that but since this conversation I find my self thinking of her most days and wondering what she is up to, although I don't want to be with her and do not want to get back with her. Could it be she is thinking of me or the conversation set off old feelings or resurfaced surpressed feelings. I haven't cared what she is up to for months but all of a sudden BAM, I find her in my thoughts half of my days, I really don't want her back or want to speak to her but could it be worrying about who's in her life etc Has anyone else experienced this after a break up futher down the line? Any advice would be helpful I am currently dating also and seeing other girls, I am social and do get on well with women as friends and in my dating life.