Hello everyone!
First, english is not my mother language so please forgive me if I am not correct in everything. I write you a story which has started about 7 years ago. I was a student at a University with medical studies. I was in college/dorm. My roommate came from another neighbour country. We became friends. He told me that next year a girl will join with us because she had a passive year. He told that she is very kind and they are good friends. Oh OK I told him. Then next year she joined. She was clever, and very kind, we started to talk it was good times.
Then after 2-3 months she started to teasing me with words or with physical things (for example she poked my armpit with her fingers). At first I thought it is just joking and she is just want to be funny. With time these things have become more common. (I almost forget to tell you she had a boyfriend) So I told her that please stop these things beacuse it is too much for me now. She didn’t care and she became angrier. I told my rommate how she behaves with me. He told me that yeah she has a strong personality. Ok I accepted but she teased me more. I started to make a distance not to tease me. It was useful for 2 months. But then she continued to tease me.
One day during a lecture she sat next to me and we talked. She told me she likes the girl on top position. I said OK I see. Then I write my notes while she grabbed a little knife from her bag and put i ton my neck! I noticed this and started to fight with her. I succesfully reached that put that knife away from me. Then I asked her why she did it. She told me she was curious the feeling to do this. I was angry at her I told her to stop to intimidate me. She told me that she will leave me in peace. For a couple of months she left me in peace. After that during a lecture we started to talk again. I told her that she is mentally ill because of these things she committed. Then I told her an example the movie „Gone Girl” from 2014. She then told me that when I least expect it in the future she will come back to my life and she will be sexually agressive with me or something like that. I don’t know exactly because I interrupted her and told her that enough this is bull***. She then stayed silent.
After a couple of months during an english lecture. One of my classmate asked the teacher of the meaning of the word „threatining” I read something else so I barely noticed. I just had a strange feeling and I looked up and I saw that she started to stop to stare me but out of the corner of her eye she noticed that I looked up at her. Then she smiled wickedly and I knew what she mean. She threatened me earlier. I thought she forgot this talking because I forgot, but not she remembered me.
After we graduated and we went our separate ways. During this time I also made a friendship with a third person with a woman who was an „old” student classmate and we are still friends. In the end of the University times she saw that I started to make a friendship with this woman. Since then she sometimes talks with her beacuse this woman told me they write messages sometimes. It is trange to me but maybe I am the paranoid. Since then she has a new boyfriend and their relationship looks serious I don’t know I just saw some facebook pictures. They are not married or no kids but it is about a 4 years old relationship. I had two girlfriends since then. Now I don’t have a girlfriend. Now I need to move away to that city where she works beacuse I will work in that city too. Should I worry about her threat or not? Life is strange sometimes.
Thank you in advance for your help!