Annannspaspan

Saying a "thank you" isn't that hard tbh, I'm expecting human decency from a grown woman . It was my treat and I told them beforehand of course, I was also planning it for a while. She told me to help her out with setting her up with one of my friends, she insisted. Ive been supportive , and there for her and ive given my time freely , but I'd appreciate it if she didn't dismisses it ,because it feels that she doesn't treat me as a friend but as someone she can rely on when needed.

I had planned to celebrate my 23d birthday with my friends, and we had set a meeting time. One of my friends asked me to bring some cat food for her kitty because she forgot to, and as a fellow cat owner, I felt obliged to help. However, I ended up arriving late, making my friends wait for about 20 minutes, which was unusual for me. That friend who asked me for the cat food called me when I arrived, expressing frustration and saying she was going home in a kinda rude manner like " i dont give a *** im going home". I tried to persuade her to join us like " cut this no sense and come " , but she acted quite immature despite being 26. I apologized i had never made a big deal about her lateness in the past. Despite this, we chose a restaurant with the other girl , ordered, and everything seemed fine. Out of the blue, I noticed the friend coming next to us looking all grumpy and seriously upset with me. I found it confusing since I had brought her along to celebrate my birthday, even though I wasn't obligated to. What puzzled me further was that she ordered the most expensive dish between the two of us and asked if i had brought the cat food. And the bill was pretty high since I told the other girl that since it's the two of us she can get comfortable with the menu. Also she comforted me so I really appreciated that . This situation led me to contemplate the state of my friendship with the other friend. I've done so many things of this person and she owes me, atleast a thank you, im not talking about money...I've helped her with her degree, I've added from my wallet when i didnt have to , I count her in all the time, lend her my time...I have even tried to get her a boyfriend because she hasn't dated someone yet...atleast be nice.

Almost one year. Thank u so much

In the initial five months of our relationship, he exhibited a charming and appealing side of his personality. However, as time went on, a toxic pattern emerged. He became controlling in subtle ways, discouraging me from spending time with my friends and expecting constant companionship, even though my commitments as a law student made that impossible. He also engaged in negative conversations about my male friends. His profound insecurities, which he refused to acknowledge, led me to shoulder the responsibility for his emotional well-being. I found myself cooking for him and fulfilling various domestic roles, akin to a traditional wife. He did seem to acknowledge and appreciate these efforts. However, a significant downside emerged as well. He had a short fuse, easily becoming angered and quick to criticize not just others but also me over minor inconveniences. After ending our relationship, I approached the breakup with kindness, expressing my feelings of being overwhelmed and weary. I conveyed my care and love for him, genuinely wishing him the best. However, he began stalking me relentlessly on social media, bombarding me with calls from various phone numbers, and even intruding into my personal space by showing up uninvited at my home, despite my repeated pleas for him to respect my boundaries. He had emotional outbursts in public display that made me feel so bad. He didn't stop there tho, he extended his unwelcome advances to include my mother, by calling her. Our past relationship was undoubtedly serious, but I couldn't endure this torment any longer. He end the contact once and for all (that's what I thought) saying how much I helped he, how he won't find a girl with morals like me , thanking me for teaching him thinks, and for not exploiting his "kindness" and congratulating my parents (lol) I thought it was really genuine. Then, two months ago, an acquaintance of mine, who happened to be an influencer with an enticing online presence, chose to message him. My feelings were conflicted—I didn't want to reveal my lingering emotions, bc I used to think that i was being to harsh . However, when she initiated contact, he swiftly seized the opportunity. Within just three hours, he professed his desire to marry her, extolling her as the most beautiful woman he'd ever met, and calling me "cheap" . He portrayed me as the 'naive' girl, despite his previous 24/7 declarations of how pretty and cute I was. All the cute names and stuff that seemed he meant them. He lied for his age and occupation to match hers (she was in her 30s), and he claimed a preference for older women, branding younger ones as troublesome and immature. I was 5 years younger than him (he was 25) . And he told me once how much he likes younger girls.He even had the audacity to label me as 'ugly,' a direct contradiction to his prior sayings lol. All of this shook me to the core, forcing me to confront the stark reality that the man I thought I knew was a stranger beneath the surface. He shattered the image he'd cultivated of himself as a moral and honest man who prioritized deeper connections over physical during our time together. I was left with the unsettling realization of how easily he was swayed and how vulnerable I had been to get cheated on. Was that all a lie ? What he said about me ? What kind of a person is he at the end of the day. I don't get it...