Wow ehat a great post thank you. No I'm not just saying I'm going to change, I am going to seek help. Other people's opinions have opened my eyes big time.
You hit the nail on the head big time with the need to build a healthy foundation for my self.. I couldn't agree more. Ive lost my own self of identity, unstable and anxious.
I certainly don't want to be controlling!!
I will look into what you have mentioned right now and take action tomorrow.
Again appreciate it.
I really hope I can turn this around.