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anyways, thank you guys for all the tips and help, i will leave this post alone now unless anything really special happens.

Yeah, i will.

Thats her side job, i think she only works there when they have a lot of guests on the weekend. From her side job its a 30 minute drive to me. I meant her main job which is in my city

Im not sure where exactly she is working, but i dont think i live close

So 5 days and still no response, i guess thats where i move on. I even saw her at a restaurant where she works a side job, but besides a few glimpses nothing happened.

Okay i texted her „heyy i hope work is good so far. If you would like we can meet next wednesday at 4 pm to drink a coffee. Let me know if it works for you😊“

To be fair my answer to her text wasnt that good and i left the ball in her court but only half, i partly told her to plan a date i asked her for.

The thing is she has already started working here , but she isnt moving away from her village. I have been crushing on her for 3 years, but i havent started texting her until a year ago yeah she probably isnt that interested, but our texts have had their chemistry. Also i doubt its just the idea of her i ve known her for a while and we shared the same hobby, she is just a happy presence whenever i see her and overall i know her a fair bit.

So i texted her „nice, you can text me if you have time next week“ its been a week and she hasnt responded. Should i text her again and if yes what should i text her?

Its honestly not that big of a deal, i already asked her out, so i might aswell try 😀

Im aware

I mean she didnt suggest a time, but she told me that she would be in my city more often

You think i should wait with asking her for a specific time for a date?

So dont suggest a meeting time at all?

How do you guys like „no problem :), how about next week?“

I understand, i might just ask her and see what her response is😄

I get that of course

So it was in another language and i didnt properly translate it. I will try again. I wrote „hey, would you like to meet for a coffee sometime“ and she answered „hey hey, sorry i totally forgot to answer 🙂 yeah my new work will be in your city and i will be around here more often“ so technically there was a yeah, but i dont know if it was an answer to my question. Of course i wouldnt forget. i get that she isnt overly excited, but i believe her

I guess youre right, but it seems for me like she isnt totally disliking the idea of a date.

Would you guys say, that her response is a good sign?

Okay, so a little update, she has responded after 2 days. She told me that she forgot to answer me and that she will be in my city more often, because her new work is here

We can talk about her work abroad, what she plans on doing in the future, favorite movies, series and so on. Its not really that she thinks im a boring person, more that im boring her with my texts, but that is also only a feeling i have

Okay i texted her "would you like to meet for a coffee sometime" With a little bit of help from a stranger😄

So do you think i should just text her, "hey, i think you are really interesting, would you like to go for a coffee sometime?" It feels kinda out of nowhere

I actually know her a bit, she comes from a small village where i have a few relatives, so i know her parents and we had communion together when we were like 10 years old. I guess i will have to ask her out, but i think shes on vacation at the moment. Do you guys think i should wait until she gets back from vacation. And over phone or in person? It might take a few weeks before i can see her in person