I think he just wanted to be honest, so that we could try to figure out what was causing him to feel that way.
But I agree with you, I don’t know what to do about it unless he’s able to explain what’s going on better. I told him that I don’t know what he’s thinking or feeling unless he tells me.
What he said may be mean, but he’s never been a mean boyfriend to me. I know in this forum-type posts, you only here a little about the situation and it’s easy to assume the worst about someone.
He has always been a caring, selfless, and attentive boyfriend. We’ve had disagreements before but he has never once shown me a red flag, and I’m not love-blind enough to miss red flags.
Of course whatever happens I want the best for myself, but honestly losing him doesn’t feel good for me at all. I know it hurts at first and then gets better, but it’s hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel when it hurts so bad.