sonice

And I didn't bring the dog because he isn't a human. Believe it or not, pets are pets, not people. They don't belong in grocery stores or vacations. I was going to stay at a relatives house and he doesn't allow pets. It's not that he doesn't allow them...he has 3 dogs, and virtually everyone else in my family had a dog or 2. There would have been like 20 dogs at one house.

We have been together for quite awhile. I CAN afford to board the dog, I just don't want to, and the cost is high because, while my dog is up to date on most shots, the kennel wants a bunch of other shots, which would necessitate me making a vet appointment and paying a bunch of money I would rather not spend. Her brother moved in...well...it's a long story. He purchased a house with his GF. She gave him 50k in cash, he financed the rest. Then he broke up with her and moved in with a woman half his age (he is 50) in her moms house. The now x gf continued to live in that house. Now he decided to kick her out so him and the gold digger bimbo can move into the house. Of course the x refused. So he is trying to evict her and has no place to go, so he and bimbo moved into my GF place. So basically he didn't NEED a place to stay. This was a problem of his own creation. Further more this is putting a huge damper on our sex life, as my kids are always at my place. She has allowed her brother and bimbo to take over her bedroom, he walks around in his underwear all day when he's not at work, and bimbo doesn't work so she's always around. Bimbo is one of those women who had dogs, not as pets, but as an accessory, something to get her attention and make her look cute. So yea. That's why I'm pissed. Her brother, while not a dead beat, not homeless, is a total moron who got himself into this ridiculous situation, and my GF decided to allow him to move in. Enabling is a huge part of this family. Literally her entire family enables the matriarch, she fakes having a disability(I've seen it first hand), pays her rent, everyone goes out of their way for her. I tried to talk to other family members about how the matriarch fakes her disability and they kinda winked like "yea we all know" but they don't want to deal with it.

So I'm annoyed. My gf and I have been together for some time. My family lives about a 4 hour drive, so I rarely see them. There was a family get together that I wanted to attend. I recently adopted a dog, and I didn't want to bring the dog nor pay 400 bucks to board him for a couple days. So I asked the GF if she would watch him at her place for 2 days. He's a good dog, and she didn't have to work or have any obligations during my travel time. I knew she wasn't a fan of dogs, so I expected her refusal to watch the dog, and i wasn't upset when she did refuse to do so. What I am upset about is a week after my ask was declined, she allowed her brother and his bimbo GF to move into her place with their 4...FOUR dogs. Am I in the wrong here? She can't dogsit for 2 days but allows her brother to move in with 4 dogs? Anyways, I'm annoyed.