speca25

Yes to both questions.

Yes I’m confused about what to do. Lets see. I’m not sure if i should consider it sexual touching, but the thing is that: 1. I barely know her, we rarely talk 2. Out of all places to touch me, she puts and keeps her hand on my tummy. I could understand a hand on the arm. 3. She placed it back when i leaned away. The vibes i got from that arent what i would call “being just friendly “. I asked my sister, she said it wasn’t done in a friendly way. Yea i kinda have trouble with social situations. Idk if its just me being clumsy or if i have something.i was told by friends that i have anxiety judging from my behavior but i always considered it just being introverted.

I can’t really tell if she likes me or is just being friendly. That’s what confuses me. Im 25. I joined around 3 months ago and she joined 3 weeks before me. She is the HR (which makes it even worse i think). Well, her asking about me getting nervous and if i have a gf happened a day before the touching thing happened, so maybe it was a sign. But again, the thing is that she is the HR so she is aware of all policies, that is why i dont know why she would do that. im not saying she is harassing me. I’m saying that even tho i like her i dont think touching someone like that so early on is a good thing. I dont feel comfortable with that.

There is a girl at my office who I have a crush on, and i feel like she knows it because she asked me thrice why i get nervous. I never told her why. The most recent time this happened she asked me again why i get nervous, i said “im not sure”. She then asked me if i feel nervous around girls and if i never talked to them. Then she asked me if i have a gf. I said no A few weeks later our company went to a club and a bit later she told me to come outside with her. Me, her, and another coworker (F) were standing together. The girl I like grabbed my arm and pulled me towards her and then we were really close to each other. She then put her hand on my tummy while she was quiet. I got really nervous and leaned away. She noticed that and put her hand again on my tummy. I was really nervous and was looking down on the floor while she was looking at my eyes, none of us were talking. The other coworker noticed that but pretended to not have seen it by turning away from us. After a week or so after that stuff she started to eat lunch with me. Everyone else goes outside to eat lunch but i sit in the office’s kitchen. She says hi and asks me how i am, asks me my hobbies, graduation, future, small talk basically. Yesterday she asked me again why i get nervous and i didn't know what to say so i just kept quiet. She has also asked me if i have a crush on someone, and i didn't tell her. Why is she doing that? And how can she tell so easily that I get nervous and havent talked to girls (no experience)? It baffles me how easily she read my mind.