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He was actually really nice with his reply I just said I wasn't worried I was intrigued and said I'm glad I asked and thanked him for being honest to which he replied when I ring we can have a chat about it I've nothing to hide but this dosnt need to go any further now I am happy with his response

I do believe he's not dating anyone else and he's told me that and said I've nothing to worry about so I will just have to accept his answer. Like you say its ɓeen 3 dates 4th one this week I have a busy life myself, I may come across like I'm overly attached and invested on here but I certainly don't with him. I don't constantly text him or ring him, he asks for the next date never me. Yes so I sent him 1 text when I was out and he was out but its never me that then continues the texting so I can't be annoying him if he's wanting to continue the conversation.

Yes I've nearly messaged him saying I believe your still on dating websites are you dating other woman as well as me. It is mearly a question I'm not annoyed I think it's fair the other person knows.

Completely agree and I will be doing exactly the same now I've found this out. I'm not annoyed he is I just like to know because if he's datingloads of women he's obviously sleeping with them too which is a huge concern

I don't know when he's had the time to date other woman.

The nights out was just because we didn't know the etecet regarding do we say when we're home etc. I get the dating website part but I'd feel bad dating other people he obviously dosnt so now ull go back on it too and start dating other men.

I want to pull him up on the dating website. I get were dating and we can daye as many people as we want. I'm not I came off it but if he's on it dating other women then I'm off.

Should I not mentioned about the dating website? He said he was gping to call me later.

Yes he's there now apparently watching the football. But my friend has just come across him on dating websites so now I just think he's on a date 🤷‍♀️

😆 now that comment was funny. I met him online and my mates just come across him still on the dating websites.

I want a relationship I want someone who will not make me feel this way. I do have trust issues but never let it show or so I don't think

Yes I know 😆 boy was the wrong word I meant man. Yes of course but I thought you meant a guywfriend that could turn into something.

Because I don't want to be to hasty he night have been overly nervous and that's why he said those silly things. Why do you think he dosnt respect me? I know that him going out last night then switching his phone off tull 2pm then messaging me like that was normal was not a nice thing to do.

Not straight ones no, I dont actually have a friend who is a boy.

I am the worst for not seeing red flags. Or I do and choose to ignore them. I wish I wasn't soft ìf I wasn't soft I might not waste my time on men that arnt really bothered about me.

I think your right I try to find reasons because ì don't want to be taken for a mug my friends say Ì deliberately self sabotage dating/relationships because they always leave me anyway so I Try and find a reason first.

You honestly wouldn't have given him a 3rd daye because of that comment. I must be soft.

😆😆 he said quite a few things my friends thought he was testing me or showing off money wise, when we were watching a programme he commented that a non famous girl was fit as well I just joked and said have you forgot who ypur sat next too.

Yeah I understand what your saying and I agree. What are your thoughts on him gping to a strip club for his 40th and paying £400 on lapdances for him.... then deciding to tell me all this on our 2nd date 😆

Concerned about the drinking or cheating?

Exactly! His pub is next door to where he lives he goes in for last orders every night and there's normally about 3 of them.

Because I àlways think the worse

Why

Ŵe hardly text, never have done I must get no more than 7 a day and there spaced out over like 2 hours. He sees his mates at the pub every night, goes the gym I've never not given him space. What's text tether?

I honestly don't know I think I think if we're not texting he's forgetting about me. Or hethinks I'm not interested so he will go off and find someone else. I don't trust any man never have done they don't even need to give me a reason I just never have ðone. I just think when they go out they can't help but look and chat to other women.