I met him a year ago at the cafe he works. It was a weird encounter because i felt something really strong connection between me and him. However, i didn’t know what to do. After a month later when I came to his cafe, he came to my table and gave me his number. He told me he felt a connection with me as well and would want to get to know me. I was surprised because I learned he felt the same way. Then, we started to date for a little, but i was in the process of separation with my husband so it was a bit complicated situation at that time. Long story short, we were seeing for a while, then i was tired of his hot and cold attitude, so i left him. Then after a few weeks, he came back to me and we got together…. we had been on and off like that for a year.
Now he got a gf 4 months ago, we haven’t seen each other since then. But we met last week for our first time since he got a gf. He told me he still hasn’t fully moved on, he is still fantasizing about we are being together blah. How much he missed me…. We just kissed but no sex.
He told me he is confused by his feelings and he doesn’t know what he wants. (He said he likes his gf but he still thinks about me.) But he never fully being together with me for a year. I just don’t understand his intention. What do you guys think about his attitude? Does he just need my attention? I’m 11 years older than him and we are really different. My guess is he likes me but he knows we can’t be together?? We have a strong connection we can’t ignore… Thank you for reading my post 🙂