Well he has been a good friend of mine for a long time and has stuck up for me many times. But I do not consider him a friend anymore after what he told my bf.
I didn't report him because I THOUGHT he was a good friend and a good person, like I said he was there for me many times. So I "forgave" him for what he was doing. He said he was sorry but he couldn't help himself and I believed him.
I don't want to ditch my bf because I love hm very much. I am thinking of telling on my friend though since now he's lying about us. I have not yet told my parents and am not sure who to go to right now. My own bf doesn't believe me so I have no one for support.
Yes for 2 months he was making me have sex with him. I told him no but he insisted. He said he was really horny and he couldn't help himself. I would tell him no but he would not let up. He convinced me it was all my fault because of what I was wearing or because I was flirting with him and I believed him so I didn't feel comfortable telling on him. And I didn't want to tell my bf because I was afraid he would break up with me.
I now see that I was confused and that my friend was manipulating me and so I want to tell on him but right now I'm just concerned about my bf not believing me. He has been through a lot lately and now he is so upset because he thinks I cheated. Do you think I should tell my parents? I really don't feel comfortable telling anyone I know about this, that is why I came here.
My bf is 21, I am 19. My friend is 20.
I would never falsely accuse anyone. Yes, I hung out a lot with my friend and I admit I do flirt a lot, but he was never my bf. I did not think of him that way. But he was a good friend until he started taking advantage of me. He also said he was sorry for what he was doing but he couldn't help himself and I believed him. So I "forgave" him for what he was doing and decided it was best to just act like nothing was happening. I now realize this was wrong but now the damage is done.