greeneyes99

Another thing good for the thighs are lundges. You will be sore the first couple of days that you are doing them, but they tone your thighs and bottom! My trainer had me doing them down the gym and back in three different sets! You could give them a try!

That is an incredible amount of weight to lose in just over a week!! I hope you are taking vitamins and getting all of your nutrients!!

Congrats to you!

Hi Maggie-

I dont think I could know him any better than I already do. The thing about him is that if I bring up how I feel before I think he is ready to hear it, I am afraid he will push me away and not deal with it right now.

We have kind of a strange history, I have posted about it in a different forum, I could post it here if you want to read it. The thing is, it is very long.

I appreciate your advice!

The university I attended, was labeled a "Party School". I am the type of person that went out and enjoyed myself. But at the same time, I made sure to take care of my schooling and I graduated with my Bachelors as planned.

I think that 20 is a frustrating age. I know that there was a time when I didn't like the changes in my life, and I blamed it on the environment. But I have realized that it is all about growing up and meeting new people, and going through new experiences. Are you attending a school with any friends from high school? Or did you move away by yourself?

I think that you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, and i think you should meet people with common interests as yourself and you will be much happier. Maybe you can find people and have study groups with them, or join a club!

Good luck!

I do have feelings for this guy. I have fallen for him over the past couple of years..

I think he knows how I feel about him and I am trying to analyze our relationship where it is to know if i should say anything about moving on to something more.

He has never been in a real relationship and neither have I. I think that the closeness between us is making both of us think about what will happen next. The only thing that scares me is that he is afraid of commitment. But on a brighter note, he just graduated college this past May, and is growing up more. This is just really confusing....

I have an advisor that I speak to every once in a while. He doesnt predict the future or anything like that. He does pick up on things going on in my life really accuratley, and I get good advice from him about relationships. Its almost like he knows the person I am involved with. You can ask me more questions if you would like to know more!

I am just looking for opinions on what is normal male "FRIEND" behavior...

I am trying to figure out what this guy wants from me.

If you were just friends with a girl, would you habitually call her when you were out with the guys, and then when you got home to talk at all hours of the night? Even when on vacation?

(This guy does he also talks about how he is going to meet all these chicks, but is on the phone with me all the time he is in the club!??)

Would you EVER do late night hang-ups to see what she was doing?

Would you ever call her from the shower?

How about alone time with her, would it consist of driving listening to music, and parking and talking until the wee hours of the morning? Mostly about deep/ intimatley close things.

I'm happy to hear any opinon, these are just some of the consistant behaviors I have been experiencing with a friend of mine, and Im wondering if other male- female friendships are like this one.