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Just taking a pole… Has any women that’s in a committed longterm marriage ever worn a different ring (one that still looks like a wedding band) instead of their diamond band on their ring finger?

We have been married for 9 years. I’ve worn it to the pool/beach and it was not a big deal. He just thinks it’s not normal for me to just “switch it up” one day bc of an outfit of bc I’m not feeling the bling. I guess I thought it still symbolized my marriage and no one would question it bc it looks like a plain gold wedding band. I definitely won’t be making that decision again, but just want a poll to see if I’m alone in doing this.

I have a white gold diamond wedding band and engagement ring. Sometimes I will just wear the diamond band, but every now and again I have exchanged it for a simple gold band (same size and by itself no engagement ring) if I’m just feeling all gold or wanting to be simplistic. This gold ring was not given to my husband, but is one from a stack I had made. I thought its ok to switch it up bc I’m still representing my marriage, but my husband was definitely not ok with this one he noticed. He thinks there is another reason behind it and that no one else does this. I felt pretty secure in our marriage and didn’t think it was a big deal. Has anyone done this not thinking it would be a problem? I want feedback on if this is super weird or possibly ordinary for some.