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I live with my parents who are very conservative and would not want me to go out with anyone

We've actually only spoken for around 2-3 weeks and I don't think I know her well enough to be able to meet her

This might be unrelated but is it too selfish to change the subject and talk about something that might be going on in my life?

I started talking to a girl from a dating app and we sort off hit it off as in we had quite interesting conversations and didn't have sort of instant connection sorta thing (mind you we have an age gap of 6 years), she has been to different places and I have not and it was quite intimidating at first but I enjoyed talking to her. She would be really nice and often tell me how much she enjoyed talking to me and would definitely want to go out with me. At first I agreed since we weren't making any proper plans but then she asked me about where I lived and I told her that I wasn't very sure about meeting her since it was the first time I had been on a dating app. I soon realized that after I told her I was having second thoughts about meeting I felt like her energy was off and she wouldn't reply as often and while I understand that other people are busy and have their own thing going on I would've appreciated a little more communication as to whether or not she wanted to continue talking. I get that talking to people on dating apps is often a trial and error and not everyone cares about communication as it's normal to ghost people. But she stopped replying and it bothered me so I proceeded to deleting our chats and muting her story as I did not want to think about her and just keep going, she has texted me again right now and I don't understand how I should go about this now. I feel like she only wanted to meet me and me disagreeing put her off

Yeah, I guess I should step away. Although, she keeps asking me what I think about everything that she says and I don't really say anything until she asks me. So what do I do when she asks me for my opinion?

My best friend recently got out of a long relationship and she has had a boy best friend as well who isn't a mutual friend of ours but right after her break up she hooked up with her boy best friend because she wanted some sort of breakup hook up. Her past relations haven't been great and she has never really been alone, she has always either dated someone or been at the talking stage with someone and I really don't think it's a healthy way to cope with anything because it just adds to the baggage she already has. She has hooked up with her best friend at least two or three times now and it has been frustrating for me to see her keep doing things that affect her mental health, I have already told her how I feel about her doing this since it's not a smart thing to do and is quite disappointing to be honest. I honestly don't know how to be there for her anymore since she treats my advice like it's nothing all the time and she knows that she's doing the wrong thing. How do I be there for her, or what do I do?