seminole

I told her never to call me again.

No,she dont want me to call her house or go over to her house because she was afraid her boyfriend would find out.Also this not the first time she has done this to me.About a year and a half ago,she met this guy who was abusive to her and she didnt call me for a year and a half.After she broke up with this loser,she called me.I guess its also my fault for letting her call me,but I gave her another chance.

Her boyfriend has cut her off from all her friends and treats her like a child .She is 31 years old.

Today I got a phone call from my best friend and said she was getting married to a total loser only after 2 months of knowing him.Then she said she would never call me again.I said why and she said you dont call friends while youre married.I said BS and told her you dont give up on friends just because you are getting married but she didnt listen.I have done alot for her in the 2 years since I've known her,sometimes more than I should have.I feel used and betrayed by her and now feel she was never my friend in the first place.

I got a call from her last night and some 18 year old girl called her boyfriends cell phone while she was with him but he knew it was her but didnt answer it.She started to cry but he seemed not to care if she cried.

I have a friend whose boyfriend is obsessed with her,telling her that he was in love with her only after the third day of their relationship.He has stayed over at her house every night until 2 am.He's extremely jealous of any man talking to her,including her best friend whom she's known for 2 years.He asks her all the time do you love me.I told her that she is being abused again but she doesnt listen or she doesnt care anymore.I know I can't do nothing about it,but deep down inside, I know shes going to be hurt again.

Why do women stay in a relationship with a man who abuses her and then leaves him and goes to another man and abuses her even though she knows already knows the warning signs of abuse but does nothing about it.

I had no relationship with my friend whatsoever.

She says hes good looking and has stayed over at her house every night until 1 or 2 am every night since the day they met a month ago.She calls me when he's not around

I have a friend I have known for over 2 years now and she is currently in a relationship with this guy who is jealous of any guy, who is not his friend ,who talks to her.She wont let me come over to her house and just talk to her,but this guys friends can come over any time they want.For some reason they can come over,but I can't.

If her attitude about herself and other men continue,she will be stuck in abusive relationships all her life or she will be lonely for the rest of her life or she could say the hell with it and commit suicide.I pray that it don't come to that,but you don't know with these kind of women.

Well I was right.I just found out that my ex-girlfriend was beaten by her husband and is now filing for divorce.This is her 3rd consecutive marriage that she was abused by her husband.

I know I can't change it and I realize that.She has made her own bed,now she must sleep in it.

Tthanks alot for all your help.

If all my life consisted of people abusing me,then I wouldn't find life that fascinating.

Her daughter was in a reform school and was out of control and her son was also out of control and she was considering putting him in military school.Hedidn't listen to his mother or grandmother.

She better take that next step,or she may end up phyiscally hurt or worse.

I know I can't help her.I wish I could,but only God and herself can change her.

I have moved on. I just want to know if this is a cycle with her so I can learn from future relationships.

No,she lived with her mother.I have been inside her mother's house when I took her to work.

I was recently in a relationship with this 35 year old woman who has been divorced twice and has 2 teenage children.I was 33 at the time.We met at work and got together by a friend.She told me that she was abused by her 2 ex-husbands and her mother.She was living with her mother at the time after her second divorce.She was afraid of her mother.we never had a date because she was afraid that her mother would find out.I couldn't call her house and the only time she would call me is when she was out of the house or when her mother was gone.When I gave her gifts,she would hide them in her purse so that her mother wouldn't see them.Her mother was always watching her and telling her what time to be home from work.the only time I saw her was at work or when her mother was gone.She has extreme mood swings.One minute she was nice and loving,the next minute,angry.I even asked her to move in a apartment with me,but she said no because she said she had a obligation to her mother for moving back in with her.Her mother was abused by her husband and hated men.I accepted the situation and accepted it.I loved her and she loved me,so I thought.

I found out from the friend who got us together that she was seeing another man.I was devastated.I didn't abuse her.I am a loving,caring ,nice and understanding person.I hardly got angry at her.I come from a stable family who is very close.I didn't understand why she left me for.

I tried calling her and she wouldn't call me.I even tried e-mailing her that a friend of hers died of cancer and threatened me with a restraining order.Only after a couple of months of dating,they got married.

Recently,I have this weird feeling that she is being abused again by her husband.I have no proof,but I am concerned.The only thing I know about her husband is that he is 42 years old and married before.How many times I don't know.

I am wondering is she drawn to men thats abusive and controlling or is there something else?

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