Leela

hi, no, I don't come from a strict religious background where sex is considered weird. my parents were always open with me about it and answered any questions I had without making it seem bad or wrong. I think the problem is closer to what muneca suggested. Do you have any advice as to how to change this response? thanks, leela

hi, I'm not a trauma survivor, and was not sexually abused. I've never been raped or even physically abused. That is why I don't understand why sex makes me cry. I don't feel sad either when it happens, it's almost like a form of relief... I think it really started after going through a bad break up over a year ago, could that be causing it? if so, what can i do to fix this? thanks, leela

I don't know the reason. that's why I posted the question...

Hi I'm 24 and have never had an orgasm. I have been sexually active since I was 19 and enjoy sex a lot, but I can never reach orgasm. I have tried masturbation, vibrators... The thing is, I know I have gotten very close, but everytime I feel like I am really close, whether I am with a partner or not, I burst into tears and it kills the mood. Is this normal? I don't understand why this happens, and I would really like to be able to experience an orgasm. does this happen to anyone else? is there something wrong with me? any input would be greatly appreciated! thanks, L