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i just got back from skiing she text me monday (valentines day) and said hey babe this is my new number, just thought i should txt you and say i love you!!!!!

what the hell do i do now?

how do i make it clear i dont like her like that?

help

thanks

i know and i shoudnt, i need to stop - i cant help it, im a flirty guy but i was just being cheeky and silly and i thought that making it obvious that i liked this other girl showed i wasnt interested in her

plus

a few months ago my mate kept saying to her mike fancys you, she asked me if it was true and i said no! and then for the next few months made it clear i really really liked this other girl!

right guys this is the problem

there is this girl in my english class im pretty certain she fancys me!

she has said loads of things to indicate she fancys me

anyway, i dont fancy her, she is cool, and cute but we have nothing in common and if we did go out we wouldnt get on

but the problem is ive been leading her on, ive been saying things like, can i check your double bed out for you and ill only go to the bop if i get a dance with you?! even tho this is me just being cheeky coz she knew that until today i really fancied this other girl!!! she knows this for a fact! also she keeps telling me she likes these other guys - but i think this maybe to make me jelous!

she told me i have a nice bum plus she changed her msn name to mike is fit and made me change mine to her name is fit!

and to top it off, i asked her to the movies today!

anyway she is really looking forward to it and when i get back from skiing were going to the cinema!

i dont want her to try it on, coz i dont want to upset her by rejecting her but i think she will when we go!

how do i stop her or make it clear i dont like her that way back?!

help plz

thanks

well iam mike, so we already know i smell

she started it, its only a laugh!

im 18 she is 17!

its only a bit of fun! and like i said if she didnt like it she wouldnt of started it

im pretty certain its not coz she is stressed! and its coz she knows i like her

so what should i say to her? to let her know i still wanna be her friend

how should i act?

etc

its for fun! ffs!

i dont even like her anymore, she is pissing me off lately! probably her time of the month!

just want some cheeky comments!

just a cuddly eeoore

she likes cuddly things - she loves me2you bears!

no idea what to do now - i dont go out often - clubs and pubs arnt me really, im in college, but there isnt anyone i really like there tbh

i got this girl a bday present tuesday, gave it to her wednesday she said thanks but didnt open it till i went, she hasnt told me since that she liked it or anything, i got the impression today when i went over there to talk to my mate (she was sat next to him) that she went quiet everytime i came over, i spoke to her a little but she looked at me like i was odd and she gave me a confused what you doing look when i caught eye contact with her!

i txt her saying

hey you guess what i did today

she replied

what did you do?

i said

had my head shaved, it looks different x

she didnt reply, she came on msn and i said hey, howz u? she said im ok thank u, i said gdgd, anything interesting happen to you today? she went offline

ive just sent her a message saying how was your driving lesson yesterday? she hasnt replied

i get the impression she wont talk - she has told me things that she hasnt told her best mate, she seemed fine with me until her bday!

she did once tell me that when she knows a guy likes her she changes, she might know i like her!? i have dropped hints to her about it!

is there anything i should do or say to her? i think im txting her too much, but i cant stop thinking about her!!!!

give me some advice please!

basically i like this girl, and me and her whenever we see each other shout "kylie smells" or mike smells"

its only for a bit of fun, and to be a bit silly,

basically i need some more ways of teasing and being cheeky with her?

i need some cheeky comments, that you can txt a girl/guy or say to when you see them briefly

eg

when eva i see this girl walk by my class or i walk by hers, we shout "mike smells" or "kylie smells" and we txt each other saying it every now and then but i need some more

what are they?

what is it?

how many sit ups a day?

i have a nice body, im skinning but my body is slim, but my dad has a beer belly and looking at mine lately its starting to go that way, im 18

so how do i keep it slim and get a 6 pack, whats the quickest way?

how about 200 sit ups a day?

also i have some body hair, should i shave this off or keep it? whats better?

whose this david guy and where do i get to read these from the start?

lol, yeh im hoping she will like it

its a cuddly one yeh, no message on it, but im gonna buy a card in the morning and leave her one saying happy bday and something else inside it

there were some small ones with messages on it but they were tiny, this one is a normal size one but no message

well i dont know about spelling lol

anyway thanks for saying its cute, im hoping to leave it with a card at her desk, in her english lesson in the morning (about 11.15)

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read that post, especially my last one, and tell me what you think of the idea of what i got her?

i need some re assurance that she will like it

right guys, cheers for the help, i never did ask her and as you may know, its her bday tomorrow

i was thinking of getting her a cuddly toy saying happy bday on it until we had this convo a couple of hours ago

her: i wonder what gav will get me (he is the guy she likes, and likes her but i dont think they are going out)

me: umm dunno, a big sloppy kiss!?

her: urgh, (then she laughed)

me: i laughed and randomly said, probably a donkey!

her: she laughed and said ooooo i would like a donkey

that made my mind up, i was going to get her a donkey, i checked my pockets for money and realised i only had £12 so i went to a shop and looked for cuddly donkeys, and i found a nice cute, eeeorrr (or how ever you spell it, you know the donkey from winnie the pooh)

what do you think?

im gonna probably speak to her tomorrow i will ask her if she would like something unique or something that will last longer for her bday and get her the one she wants

good idea?

the balloon idea is unique

the teddy idea will be she remembers me everytime she sees it

which one?

a few girls i have asked have said go with the balloon idea

its either the balloon idea or the teddy with happy bday on it idea

i dont know which one!!!

actually guys, ive just been persuaded to do the balloon thing - 1 balloon and a card at her desk in her 1st lesson tuesday morning

anyone got any good reasons why i shouldnt do that?

well i dont think she is attracted to me or interested in me in that way right now so i wanna still be her friend and when her and this other guy break up and if im still interested in her then i will say something but until then i will be her friend etc

i know she likes me2you bears but i know she has loads of them and i know that my mate got her one of them for her bday so i cant get that.

so maybe a bunny rabbit or what other animals are sweet?

if i said this bunny rabbit made me think of you, will she think that is cute etc or will she wonder why she is being compared to a bunny rabbit?

ill be honest, i have less than £10 to buy a card and present

so a little stuffed animal. anymore ideas?

and would leaving it at her desk be cool, or should i give it to her personally (im not going round her house or anything)

the thing is we are friends and her knowing i fancy her could ruin a good friendship especially as she may have a bf by then (he asked her out, she said i want to get to know you better, he said im afraid of losing you, she said if you want something to happen then its up2 you as i like you) and her best mate told her he fancys her and ruined there friendship, so me telling her i like her will be like her and her best mate all over again i think and will confuse her even more

i need something, sweet, charming and nice but funny and cute and cheeky all in one!!

oh and no im 18 not 29

Ok guys, a girl i like is 17 on tuesday, i have no money but im going to get her a card. Should i get her a present? Im her friend (although not a great friend, but i have given her some advice over the past few weeks and she said she values my opinion and has told me more about things than she has told her best mate!) but Ive not been getting the right signals from her saying she wants to be more than friends and telling her could ruin a friendship

so should i get her a present?

i was thinking maybe a balloon or a bunch of balloons left at her desk on tuesday morning in her college lesson before she gets there with the card - i found out her fav colours are blue and pink today

This would help coz its cheap, a little different and sweet right?

Any ideas on what present i should get her? Is the balloon a good idea? How many balloons? What colours? Leavin it at her desk. is that a good idea?

Any ideas or help will be greatly appreciated

thanks

mike

my mate is going out with another girl now tho. I really really liked her before he started going out with this other girl, but i dont think he is going to be a problem if i do ask her out

its just i cant see me and her happening, i would ask her out if i thought something would happen but i get the impression that she is just my friend as she likes asking me for advice.

Is there anyway i can make her see me as more than just a friend? are there any techniques or things i should do that would make her more attracted to me?

basically how do i get out of the just friends stage without ruining our friendship?