Lisaann7898

Hi thank you for all your supportive thoughts!

I am feeling better today. I am seeing a psychologist and I am taking an antidepressant, at times though, they just dont seem to be working.

I don't want to completely give up, I love my husband so much! We both came from similar backgrounds, and it seems like we aree both acting like thin-skinned immature children. I know we both need intense psycotherapy, but don't know where to get it. All the counselors I go to, just kind of sit back, and don't really get in touch with what we are truelly needing.

We both had very dysfunctional households growing up with sexual and emotional abuse. I know he is a good person, and I can't stand the thought of raising another daughter without their father(especially since he is so good to her). So as you can see it's a little stressful, and I guess I need to do a whole lot more praying. I think we need more spirituality so we can get over our wounded children syndromes and start to heal. What do you think?

What do you mean?

Whew, that was lengthy, I think it was a bad dreakup for sure. But lucky for you it wasnt a divorce, bc it surely wouldve been had you married you(she wouldve cheated during the marriage too). Hope you are happier than ever now!

I think he has been thinking about you alot and trying to figure out how to reconnect. I think your friends are harmless, but need to realize there are unspoken boundaries with a friend's ex, unless they were friends before you got with him.

I think you should communicate your feelings to all parties with calmness and that what you choose to say is for the right reasons.

Hello everyone, I am new here, but I need help. I am really sad right now due to a recent seperation. I left my husband in October and moved 3 hours away. We were fighting constantly. The 1st time he hit me was one month after our daughter was born (shes 14 months old). After that I started hitting him when we fought with him calling me pysho and crazy b....and worse. Something snapped in me , and now I cant control my anger towards him. He had been driving down part of the week. Last week he met me to get gas, and I refused to look at him and barely said hello, this infuriated him and he said he was going back. i refused to fight with him, so he was leaving. I couldnt believe it. He had been telling me not to fight with him any more and now that I was, he took off even though he knew I had to b at work and our 2 kids with me(he was supposed to watch them). I felt like that was the last straw bc I had a job that I needed to protect and I couldnt just call in like he told me to. So now he has our baby and I have my 6 yr old. But I call today and our baby is with his ex(who has caused a lot of our problems). What to do? I asked him to please find someone else bc its inappropriate for her to be watching the baby, plus I miss her so much.

I feel so lost. I felt like hurting myself(I am ina deep depression and have attempted twice now in 4 years), but I'm trying to get my mind off this pain. Trying not to give in to it. Please help.