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Well that seems a bit strange! I mean a year and a half is an enough time to make a move. But may he is worried about your reaction if he made any move. I mean may be you should encourage him. MAy be going out to watch a romantic movie and be close to him. I dont know it is really hard to say coz I you are the one in the nrelation so you should know better. I dont know what culture you and him come from. In some cultures people might be in love for years withoiut any physical contact. So there might be many reasons. May be he is shy or insecure or ....

I hope things get better

Good luck

well I have been fooling around with my bf whom I met like a month and a half ago. I am still virgin. Thursady night we were fooling around and he had his condom on and I was on top of him but no penetration or anything happned but he came. I am freaking out. He told me that I can take the morning after pill. well it was the sixth day of my period but I was clear. A firend adviced not to take the pill. But I am so paranoid. Please advice if there is any chance that I could get pregnant?

Nah, don't tell him that. Keep your secret to yourself for now. Yes, you're a little later than average on learning things like this but so what, it's what makes you YOU. I hope you have no intentions of sleeping with this man any time soon..... because of your inexperience, you may easily be led astray. Do not let that occur. You need to see where his heart is first. So make sure you give it plenty of time and study his actions, not so much his words, okay?

 

As for the kissing, it might sound corny and obvious but, just make sure you brush your teeth and have nice breath.... that way you'll have the confidence within yourself to know you're doing the best you can. It's not difficult, and it will happen naturally.

 

Good luck!

Thanks... well I will try to hide it even though I am a very transparent person so I hope he wont notice....

I think you have the right to be angry. It must be annoying, but you should try to deal with the situation calmly. If you get stressed out about it thigs will start to tense between you and your boyfriend and might find your self in a bad position.

I understand his motivation to answer her calls. It is hard to ignore someone who you cared about at one point in your life. Brobably you would have done this if you were in his place, think of it this way. But if he is not making an action then you dont have to worry. He is with you in the UK and she is far in the USA, so the ball is in your field and you have to know how to play well.

I blame him for one thing though, that he didnt tell you about the whole thing. But again may be he was worried that it will affect your relation. I think you have to talk with him about it and try to sort it out and move on.

Good luck and remember you have been together for 5 years it would be a shame to lose him.

I am 25 and I have never kissed an guy before. I met this guy like month ago and he really was very interseted, spent a lot of time with me and called everyday. Last Thursay I slept over at his, we slept in the same bed (nothing happned), and he was so kind, kissed me briefly..I was so nervous I cannot remember what I did coz I dont know how to do this. I am so worried that he thinks I am a bad kisser. I like him and I dont want to lose him. Havent seen him since as he goes home on the weekend.

I dont know what to do. Shall I tell him that i have never been kissed if he tries again or what? I cannot stop thinking about it.