Jdesey

thank you.. I really appreciate this... how exactly did he ask for that dinner?

ok folks.. let me be clear.. she is not in a big time committed relationship... she lives on her own. This post was meant to hear from folks who got back together after a long break,, just looking for some feel good stories

how long from first contact to that initial dinner? I am 2.5 months into this and no meeting has been set.

she does not do social media, she is very private. I reached out because I have finally become the man I wanted to be. No she is not single, but even she admits it is not true love. I have suggested to get together to catch up. so far all communication is email and a few handwritten letters I sent her. It has only been 3 months since I started started the contact.

basically I failed to support us and we were not making it financially. I was just a mess at that time. I am 100% better now and that is why I am trying for a make up now.. . just looking for folks who got it together after years apart

I am 57 year old professional guy, she is 55. We were engaged and broke up 7 years ago. After no contact for 7 years I reached out 3 months ago to make amends and try to establish communication. So far it has been well received but no face to face and all communication thru email. I would love to hear from men or women who got it back together after a long break. I guess I am looking for some hope that it really does happen sometimes for folks.