I don't really believe that theory, my wife and I started seperating in May and we are now going to "TRY" to work on it now...Of course, it is really up to her. I've been scoping this site out and I like it, good to know there are more people out there with relationship problems like mine. I think I'm going to post on the site, but it is a super long story....Anyway, I think people break up when they have enough of certain situations...Maybe noone is posting because everyone that is unhappy has already posted..LOL...Don't worry, I'm sure more will come, I know mine will be...