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Hi i have been struggling the last few days since last thursday ..my ex texted me over the weekend because i was harassing him i felt i.had to let my anger out or i would go mad and i lost it on him I was surprise he did not threaten to call the police...I was going through the anger phase and i still am..i don't want him back but i want him to feel the pain he put me through

 

Anyways i met someone .. We are suppose to meet up on Sunday even though i met someone else i still feel like a failure because i couldn't make things work with my ex..i don't know who i am so angry with weather it's with myself or my ex

Hi everyone i had been going through a tough time the last couple of days trying to get my ex to respond to me and in between this time i had been listening to a YouTube channel by Abraham Hicks she is a motivational speaker on law of attraction i had been listening to her speak on how to align yourself vibrationally with your vortex to attract what you need when you want it..i had been doing her work trusting the universe to give me the release i needed to move on and let go from my ex..that was all i needed i didn't want him back i just want to let go and not look back for my own sanity.. After doing her work my ex finally responded and when he did i felt like i finally got my power back and i am ready to move on..

 

If you are struggle to let go listen to one of Abraham hicks youtube channel on the laws of attraction or her inspirational speeches on moving on and letting go..they have helped me maybe they will help you too

Will you sticky this one in this forum, please?

hi i couldnt control my self i was going through the anger phase..i called him and let him have it not before i bombarded his phone with messages and textes because he would not answer ..i felt i had to let it out our i would have burst..this no contact thing was making me feel as if i could not express my emotions. i was suppressing my feelings and if i did not let them out i felt like i was going to lose my mind.

 

any ways i felt enough time has passed for me to have complete control of my emotions so i would not make a complete fool of my self. i got my closure and now i feel as if i can move on..so tomorrow starts my true beginning of letting go without looking back ..day one of NC not to get him back but to let go..i am going to need help to stay on this path....thanks to anyone who can help me through this as i do the same for them.....God bless

Hi feeling down today miss the ex..this my 7th week on NC..haven't heard from him not expecting to...was thi king back on the good and the bad and wondering if he is seeing anyone..trying my best to move on and leave it in God's hands

A little over a week of breakup. And officially almost 2 days no contact. I am doing it for me.

 

So today I woke up feeling sad. It's to be expected. I understand my feelings better and that these things happen in waves. One moment I find some clarity, the next moment I am drowning in sadness. I am ok though. Something in me feels like we will be together again. He never said that it was over forever. And there's been some implied words that has me thinking we just need time right now to grow, mature, etc.

 

I been talking to a friend who's been helping me through this. They remind me to be strong and focused. I had a small pity party, so I cried and then I got up and got on with myself. It's something courageous and brave if you can pick up the pieces of this experience and not let it define you. Let this be a lesson. No one is perfect, we all have something to work on with ourselves. Why not use this time to be on our own and do our own thing? I am not going to date anyone or pull someone into my vulnerable self. That's unhealthy and not giving myself time to breathe, reflect, and truly find contentment on my own. I love my guy so much, I can sit here and tell you I feel he's the one. He has been a breath of fresh air in my life. I only hope I had such an impact on him as well. Time will tell what happens and how stuff unfolds. Right now, NC is helping me focus on all this stuff inside me. I have been writing a lot to get things off my chest. I don't send it to anyone, I just write for me.

 

Today he sent me a text letting me know he had sent a text the other day incase It didn't send. I don't know why he would care so much to make an effort to just say that but he did. This is leading me to believe that NC is working already. You have to keep in mind him and I had been together for a few years. We have this history together. He always cared a lot for my well being all the time. I took him for granted because I fell into deep anxiety and lost my self esteem as well. I was also dealing with PTSD. It made me an irrational person. It takes the relationship to end in order for me to see clearly and now I do. In many ways I appreciate this experience so I know better how to fix it and what to fix. Once I am in a better place, if he comes back and we work things out, well then it's meant to be. I know we will be much stronger cause of it.

 

 

 

It seems as if he still cares for u deeply..i feel strongly that you two will find your way back to each other.... God bless

Thank you strongmily ..i will try this exercise i so appreciate you being here for me as i will be here for you and everone else who needs kind words and strength to lean on....god bless

Woke up feeling sad this morning.. Thinking of things that might or might not be true.. Why am i trying to make my self miserable.. Its been six weeks why am i going backwards

Its been six weeks of no contact ..starting Nc again after a same old same old i have finally learned my lesson ..took one year to finally slowly get out of my fog

 

Haven't heard a peep from him..had some ok days and some days when i find it difficult to get out of bed..when will i be my self again

 

I am planning on nc til he breaks..lets see if he ever will hes as stubborn as a mule

I' ve been a baaaaad puddy cat!

Today is day 16..yesterday was a trying day ..i feel much better today.. I am making a positive affirmation.. I will make alot of money today and we all will have a WONDERFUL DAY!!!!

I forgot to mention his birthday was on the 7th i thought of texting happy birthday but decided not to..he is a manipulative person by nature and would proberly take it the wrong way

Hi i am on day 15... I am beginning to feel lonly again especially in the mornings.. Yesterday was a challenge i was itching to call but i fought the feeling by reminding my self how destructive it would be for me and my healing and how i will remain stuck in a vicious mentally destroying state of not being able to let go and move on to healthier relationship with someone that is better for me

Day 14 of no contact..i am doing this challenge to move on..but wondering if i will eventually hear from this stubborn man..i know i am not suppose to care ..but i am only human

Hello i am on day 13 of no contact i am feeling ok haven't heard from him but he is a very stubborn man.. I am also doing this to move on

Hi i would like to start this challenge i am on day 12 of no contact with my ex ..he had promised to move back in with me but at the last minute he changed his mind ..i believe he had no intention of moving in but was string me along..we spoke twice since he dropped the bomb on me..and its beeb 12 days since...i had been tempted a few times but i pushed through without doing it..i have been up and down with my feelings and thoughts but i am determined to never contact him again ..but i did text him 12 days ago to not be afraid to call me sometimes.. It might have been wrong but whats done is done..i havent heard from him since

 

He is a stubborn man and i will be suprise if i do here from him..he is manipulative too and i am determine not to make him manipulate me

Why is it when ever I post here I end up texting him

I am tempted to see if you text me on mothers day if you didn't I would be devastated

Hi I am sitting here alone thinking of texting you asking you to come keep me company and take me to my niece bridal shower... Knowing you you would ignore me

F@#k you ....thanks for wanting to keep me company.. You en creep what r u really doing why don't you want to talk.. Your ruining everything.. Your pissing me off!!! Ugggghhh

Thanks...what a conversation starter.. So vague and stupid I guess you don't want to talk.. !!!

Hi I text you a bunch if times yesterday it took you awhile to respond

 

You said you are not closing the door and you need to find out who you are and where your life is heading I don't know what that means and you would not explain..

 

I suggested we keep in touch and hang out once in awhile to see if we can start anew..you did not agree or disagree so I do not know where you stand on that...anyways I am thinking of waiting a couple of weeks before I contact you again knowing you will never contact me again since you are so passive aggressive and manipulative

(I got this idea from another forum I visit frequently, if one like this already exists by all means ignore / delete this one.)

 

OK, it seems a few of us have had a rough time with the darned NC. I had fantasies today of unloading all this anger, longing, and "W-T-F" onto my ex. I am creating this thread as a place for all of us in pain to post instead of contacting Ms/Mr ex. It could actually be kind of fun, at least a release.

 

What would you like to tell him or her? Even if it's been building up for years, post it here! Rage-fest! Longing-fest! DO NOT CONTACT that frigging ex, put it all here!!

Sending you those text was a big mistake now you won't talk to me

 

I should have just done what I said I was going to do which was talk to you occasionally

Still up and down emotions ...I wish I can be completely indifferent and move on,..I hate feeling rejected.. Boohoo

From now on if I ever feel like sending you a text I will post here instead.. Because it is not worth it sending it to you..it only set me back and make me feel depress..any ways hope you are having a lovely day..hopefully one day you can forgive me and see me as someone you truly love and want to be with...God bless I will pray for us to keep each other company again without the drama but with lots of love and forgiveness

I have sent you the last text I will ever send..you haven't reply and I think if I leave w well enough alone eventually you will..weather the reply will be good or bad I don't know but you move like a snail at everything so I will give you your space to do so..