myplague234 Posted August 22, 2004 Share Posted August 22, 2004 ok...the girl i really like...who also has a bf unfortunately.....has been on my mind too much lately. i REALLY want to tell her how i feel but i dont know if i can brign myself to tell her..beecause she has a bf now because i was too shy to ask her, and i dont know if it will make a difference now. sumone please tell me if i should tell her...and if i should how? Link to comment
aireyc Posted August 22, 2004 Share Posted August 22, 2004 I'd wait for a while and see how things with her BF turn out. She may get turned off if you tell her now. When the time does come, I would just be straightforward with her. Chris Link to comment
myplague234 Posted August 22, 2004 Author Share Posted August 22, 2004 i have been waiting awhile....8 months to b exact....and i cant stop thinking bout her...i just really want to tell her...i dont know wat to do ](*,) Link to comment
S4il Posted August 22, 2004 Share Posted August 22, 2004 waiting until she could possibly break things off with her current B/F, And than at that point you tell her how YOU feel about her, could lead to you becoming what they call a REBOUND *(Above The Color RED speaks for itself)* Meaning: You will fill-in for the Ex Boy Friend I'm not saying that is for sure, but there is a chance it could happen, So think about that first. My advice to you would be these (2) quotes i heard in the past. "REWARDS COME TO THOSE WHO TAKE RISKS" Go for it, tell her that you like her, and say it like you mean it. "REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET" Link to comment
myplague234 Posted August 22, 2004 Author Share Posted August 22, 2004 thats good advice....i guess i just have to wait for her to end thigns wiht her bf or vice versa....ive just been waiting so looong and im tired of waiting....i havent had a relationship in forever and shes the only on ei can bring myself to like.... Link to comment
myplague234 Posted August 22, 2004 Author Share Posted August 22, 2004 o and one more question...if they do break up...shoul di ask right away or wati awhile? Link to comment
afterpo Posted August 22, 2004 Share Posted August 22, 2004 hey , does she show some signs that she loves or has interest in u . if she does , try to tell her without thinking , maybe she just want u to be active . u know although she has a bf already , but who knows weather she loves her bf or not now ...like me , i have a bf for three years, but i found i fell in love with other guy ,but i don't break up with my bf because i am waiting that guy to tell me he loves me . maybe u will think i am such selfish , yes, i accept it and i hate myself to be that . on the other way round , if she doesn't like u for now ...u had better wait until they break up then tell her bravely . besides , time will let u make sure if u love her as much as u think . if she finds that u have already love her for such a long time even when she had a bf , she will be too moved to say a word ..then u may taste the sweetness of love ....good luck Link to comment
myplague234 Posted August 22, 2004 Author Share Posted August 22, 2004 ok...thank you for your advice everyone Link to comment
inspiration Posted August 23, 2004 Share Posted August 23, 2004 i'm in the same spot, she knows how I feel about her but it just wouldn't be right. I have a year of HS left and she just started college. I'll be going to the same college as her next year so I'm going to see if I meet any other people in the mean time. But if all fails I'll try to get with her. I don't see their relationship lasting all through college anyways. If it does though, more power to them! -.ins Link to comment
Loco1607307111 Posted August 24, 2004 Share Posted August 24, 2004 Hey i got a Very Very simuliar problem...the girl that i like has a Boyfriend...i Can really Tell that He treats her bad...hes very Controlling...So i decided not to Waste the time..in every conversation i got closer to her and more closer...Since im a new spanish Kid in a White Town..I started getting picked on and so on..idk but people didnt like me here....and if i fought or touched any of these punks i'd Say everybody would be all over me always trying to beat me up...Now this Girl Really did and so i think...I talked to her...that she blew of the other guys and From then on I walked Her to her classes whenever possible..and ran to my clasess ...And this girl always...always protects me...i told her i really liked her...even though she has a B/F she never rejected me..she never said i didnt have a chance...she said "i'd say you still got a chance" and then held my hand...If i was in your position i'd go for it...Screw the Boyfriend Link to comment
myplague234 Posted August 24, 2004 Author Share Posted August 24, 2004 See i could do that but the only problem is that shes happy with her boyfriend. But when we hang out she acts like a girlfriend to me. Its all just so confusing i mean im really upset and dont know wat to do. Im losing sleep over this girl. Im thinking about trying to find another girl but i cant bring myself to liek neone else.... Link to comment
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