i need help on places to meet girls

[comalies]

i'm sort of a shy guy but slowly getting past that. it's just where are good places to meet girls? i hate clubs because i just don't think it's a good place to meet people, same goes with bars. so where do i go to meet them?

 

thanks

[Tinkerbell]

Have you tried an online dating site? I've never used one myself, but from what I gather quite a few relationships are blooming because of them.

If you're interested, you might as well give it a shot...Afterall, what do you have to lose? O

[comalies]

forgot to mention i have tried that. i just got out of a 3 year relationship 4 months ago and i am doing the no contact thing with the ex. since we are apart, we are doing the things for ourselves to make us better as individuals. we both hinted at getting back together but we still aren't sure. so we will both be dating in the mean time. i'm looking to see what else is out there. i met my ex from internet dating and i don't regret it.

i recently started the internet dating again, met a few people but i just didn't click with anyone. i guess i need to keep trying, but i am getting discouraged with it a little bit. i also tried the speed dating and let me tell you, even though i didn't meet a datable person yet, it is a blast to do!!

i highly recommend it.

[disEnchantid]

I guess my question for you would be what type of girl are you looking for? That might help me lead you to places to look that you might not think of. For example, an obvious one would be if you are looking for someone who likes to read then a bookstore would be a good first stop, or if you are looking for someone who is interested in the arts, a museum or gallery is an obvious suggestion.

Another place you might not neccesarily think of that are good over the summer are outdoor flea markets/antique shows, there is one not terribly far from where I live that goes on every weekend and I went there and to my surprise saw lots of people around my age, male and female, walking around! Another idea is to take a classe at the gym, if you belong. For some reason, my spinning and kickboxing classes are almost all female! I have never seen more than one guy at one at a time! I had a friend who took a yoga class and met several nice girls that way.

 

Best of luck!

 

dE

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

Why not ask your friends you want to go meet new people and perhaps you can tag along with they go out with their friends etc etc etc, it's always a good way to meet new people if you don't want to seem desperate.

 

Heb

[comalies]

thank you for the good ideas!! dE and heb

i think the bookstore will be a good place for me to frequent more often!

that's the type i'd like to meet

now i just need to work on going up to them and not saying something stupid