teddybear

I would say if you really love him try it again. But you have to let him know what where you stand and what your not going take. One other thing don't give all of youself to him at one time ease into it just in casehe decides to leave again you'll be prepared and it won't hurt as much at least with this second time around hopefully you'll find happines or closure. WISHING YOU THE BEST

If he really loves you then he would'nt keep running back and forth between the two of you. What you need to do is give him an ultimatum, he's telling you one thing and telling her another. If he really loves you and you say he spends most of his time with you then, you have to make him choose don't let him have his cake and eat it too. Always make yourself first, never second he will respect you more for that, and if he does'nt then somebody else will.

I agree.

 

 

Well the only thing is that I have children with my Ex, son when he calls I have to pick up so that makes it even harder for me. Iv'e tried the no calling him for 2 weeks,I know I'm bad too because I try to think of things just to call. I mean come on whats the probelm with wanting to share your highs and lows with the father of your children. And he's unhappy with his new wife anyway the only reason I believe their even together is because she had a baby, I know he still wants me and every opportunity that wifey leaves open I'm going to take. AM I WRONG? I WAS WITH THIS MAN FOR 10 YEARS I KNOW HIM BETTER THAN ANYONE! I CAN'T LET GO