Am feeling very sad, any words of advice or consolation would be very appreciated 😞
I've been talking to a guy i met on bumble that lives a ferry ride away from me for the last 3 months; I checked in with him very early on in the talking stage whether long distance is an issue or deal breaker for him and he said it isn't. We've been vibing amazingly and he's been reffering to me as his "prospective girlfriend", making me assume he's waiting for us to meet before we make it official.
We finally met on monday; I went to the island and stayed over for 3 amazing days; just the absolute best, we got along well, had lots of fun, tons of cuddles.
I then brought up the relationship question and he hit me with the "I don't know; it's complicated because of the distance". I asked him again if the distance is an issue for him, and he said "not emotionally but semantically" in that he's busy with school and im busy with work and that this is why he tends to avoid online and long distance relationships.. he said he needs time to think about how he feels and that he really likes me but doesn't have an answer for me right now.
I feel very confused and honestly a bit strung along; I've made it clear that I am okay with a long distance as it is very easy for me to book time off to go see him and that I'm in no urgency or rush to date other people just because of distance. I'm really not even asking for much other than to keep vibing how we have been but just with the comfort that we are exclusively vibing with each other.
So now I wait I guess with the potential that he will tell me he doesn't want to pursue the relationship because of the distance even though he likes me and wants to be with me ? Idk..I really like this guy and am just really sad and confused about the whole thing.
