manhood

why are you still with nerdy boy? You know I'm a way better catch

Okay, here is my story:

My ex gf broke up at the end of january without giving good reasons. But I guess she wasn't ready for a real relationship yet (she is 22). So the first week I tried getting her back by sending emails and calling her, we live far apart so I didn't visit her. After that we did some weeks of NC and LC.

When we were on LC she was the one mostly initiating a conversation on msn. Though she writes a lot about going out with her new male friends, and during our last conversation she even told me she has a new bf and goes on vacation with him this july. So I went into NC again.

Though I've heard from a mutual friend that the relation isn't that great as the relation we had in the past. Honoustly I would like to have her back, but I don't know if the NC is working, she doesn't hear from me anymore..so I'm getting out of her head I guess. If I'm online she will be thinking about me from time to time, and that will remind her of our relation in the past.

So should I stick on NC or LC? I would like to write her: Get back to me, you new bf isn't that great..and stuff like that. But that probally will push her further away.