Leon91

bite..

did she ever contact you after walking away?

im glad you can say your doing well.

ill keep my chin up and do yall proud

cheers mate.

no its not wrong she is the mother of your baby and you want to be in their life and not jus as some kind of sperm donor. her parents may be the grand parents but you are the FATHER...kinda trumps them

 

sometimes you have to kinda play these games and showing her you crawl wont make her respect you and it wont serve any purpose in the long run cos peeps cant love truly who they dont respect.

 

youre a father now, a man, so lets see what ya made of

i know you arnt really a solicitor ( or are you haha )

but i made an appointment to go see mine today

for thursday.

as a father am i entitled to access ( i am named on birth certificate )

and does this access have to be on there terms or is at a third partys terms that we come to an agreement using?

just trying to give myself as much ammo and armour as poss

thank you!!

Day 158 (about to be 159 in a half hour)

 

I feel a bit bad. I can't believe I let someone screw me over in the worst ways for over a year. I guess he never really did loved me, but rather, wanted to use me for sexual comfort and companionship.

 

I didn't mean anything to him at all. Nope. Not one bit...

DAY 158/159

WOW...

phenominal!

you seem to be doing very very well!

theres a few peoples storys on here that give alot of hope!

but day 159, wow lol! i kinda hope by then me and the ex can get on like adults should, especially for our daughters sake!

take care! good luck

oh this is awful when you cant be with your newborn baby and its an enforced situation (hugs)

 

a new baby is a lot to deal with as you are finding out - they say they can make or break.

 

i would try resolve things without legal help if at all possible, before barging in...it wont help matters and its always nasty *again been through this and about to go through it again* ....but ultimately yes you need to get some contact sorted with your baby asap.

I did try contacting them through a message to her mothers mobile.

of course had no response.

and i dont want the ex to think " hes using the baby as an exuse to speak to me! "

her family are very stuck up immature people!

I think when the initial letter lands on her doormat, she will begin to panic!

that combined with the NC should make her think a little dont you think?

in the mean time im gonna try stay upbeat, i miss them terribly!

i know this is wrong but:

im praying she calls or texts soon. i miss her so much, even though i guess its mainly to show im movin on ( well ish ) but hopefully make her realise im gone! i know its bad and game like.. but i would never be nasty and i know shes doing this to get me to crawl and it aint gonna happen!

but as i said, her and her family will keep me away at all costs

NEW HERE

spent the last four days reading page 1-198 of the

"things to avoid certain doom"

its helped me out majorly!

5 years together ( pretty good for 13/14 yr olds dnt you think )

that little bit of selfworth, that someone else will love you!

my family have been great ( iv even got to enjoy a few mornings in bed lol )

shared a house with the ex, was to hard to stay there alone!

so thats up on the market and moved back with family!!

what makes mine so complex is we have a very young daugter ( 3 months old )

after walking out, she text me saying how sorry she was and that she wanted to be back here etc etc.

her phone has been off since so i dont know when ill hear from her again!!

miss her like crazy although it isnt as bad as i thought lol!

missing my daughter so so much! not being able to pick her up and kiss her forehead or feel her hand hold my finger ( tears again now )

anyways im on day 4..

no contact from either side since that one text..

not that she would know if i tried contacting her even mind lol.

upwards and onwards eh?

going take legal action to make sure i can see my daughter as much as possible!!

im trying my best

GOOD LUCK TO EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU!!