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Did you really think I'd let you dictate everything that I could be?
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I don't love you anymore, but I'm still consumed by you.
It wouldn't make a difference what the answer was, but if I knew whether you still think about me, or feel any pangs of guilt for the way you acted at the end, it would make me feel better.
If you were guiltless, I could finish writing you off as the vapid, heartless scum that you have demonstrated yourself to be turning into.
If you feel bad, or ever think fondly of the three years we lived together and shared our lives, it would assuage my mind somehow. I don't want to get back together. I just want to know that I meant something to you. That, even if you still stand by your decision to throw away our relationship the way you did, you occasionally doubt your choice or feel like you made some mistakes along the way.
I don't want to think that I was with someone for so long, who could be as heartless as you appeared at the end. But, certain things that you've done and actions you have exhibited in the aftermath lead me to believe that your silence does not necessarily indicate that you have moved on -- in fact, it appears that your life is in the deepest turmoil since before we met.
Good.
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I've given everything you wanted. You wanted to move here, I made that possible. You wanted to break up, I let you leave. You wanted to move out, I let you move out. Now you are telling yourself and others I wanted you out of the house?! Nothing could be further from the truth. I was giving you what you wanted. You have been bringing up moving out of the house since shortly after we split. I never mentioned getting your stuff out because I was holding out hope. I finally told myself I couldn't have your stuff around any more if you weren't willing to work things out. I gave you what YOU wanted. I let you move out. Now you have the nerve to believe that I WANTED you gone? Quit torturing me and make up your mind already.
Bobby,
My ex pulled this exact same thing on me. It's just bitter rationalizing... eventually they realize they're wrong, trust me.
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Threw you the obvious,
And you flew with it on your back,
A name in your recollection
Down among a million same
Difficult not to feel a little bit
Disappointed and passed over
When I look right through
To see you naked but oblivious
And you don't see me
But I threw you the obvious just to
See if there's more behind the
Eyes of a fallen angel
Eyes of a tragedy
Here I am expecting just a little bit
Too much from the wounded
But I see, seeing through it all
Seeing through, see you
'Cause I threw you the obvious to
See what occurs behind the
Eyes of a fallen angel
Eyes of a tragedy, oh well
Oh well
Apparently nothing
Apparently nothing at all
You don't, you don't, you don't see me
You don't see me
You don't
You don't see me at all
Post here instead of contacting your ex!
in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
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What an incredibly mature sentiment. I would give anything to think that my ex feels this way and can examine her own behavior, and take some onus for the breakup, like you did here.