jaws111

dunno howdifficult it is in Va. but I don't think it is easy anywhere, esp. when you factor inall that happens in the process of splitting...

I really believe it was best for us... we just couldn't get along together... Just all the other crap doesn't help going on

thank you all for the swift replies and suggestions... yes, i have tried to break down different parts of what is happening, but everything is happening all at once.. Work is tremedously busy, I am chef, manager and all and we are sooo busy right now, add in the fact that the owners are pushing me into taking over the operation.. ( I have been there 12 years, they have owned for 2), the divorce which i wanted, but she is trying to take everything, and feeling like I finally found my soulmate and we also want to marry next year, while she is having probs in her life with her children. I am absolutely overwhelmed. Came home Sat. night after feeding 500 people between Fri nad Sat night,,,, was shaking... am right now too.... could only sit in tub and just stare..... am a usually very strong and confident person... hard for me to cope with myself and others when I can't even deal right now with anymore... I feel like I'm about ready to snap.

please help.... am just finishing a divorce and trying to take over a very busy business while running and operating it, also dealing ith a fiances' problems with her family, don't feel right. Am usually very strong. can't cope. having too many bad thoughts mixed with knowiing what is right.... shaky, feel sick a lot, can't sleep right or concentrate much... please someone help me understand what is happeing or just talk.......