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Do you think I'm doing the right thing by doing NC. She told me no contact, but I want her back and by doing NC I will not get her back, I will get myself back and she will be gone ... Do you agree?

I hear what you are saying ... but she says that she was with me for almost three years and I did not make a committment to her. But if she is already dating, that really hurts. I want so much to contact her and see if this relationship is truly over or if she was just saying things to hurt me and make me jealous. The NC is tough!

I love her and miss my best friend. I thought we had a future together. If she is dating other men, how do you handle that one if you get back together?

I would like to get back on my feet first and then get her back, but will she be there? This NC is tough, if I don't a least show a little interst and then call her in 1-2 months, what will she say?

I tried the "I'll do whatever it takes approach" our last face to face meeting, that's when she said it was over!

I dated a women for almost 3 years. We had disagreements along the way just like any relationship. Things came to a head around two months back and I tried to save the realtionship during December ... flowers, cards etc. She likes to go out with her single friends and I did not mind when were together, but when things went south I believe she met another guy. Finally things ended two weeks ago with her telling me that it's over and I'm dating other men, do not contact me. I have not contacted her but it is killing me!

She wanted to move the realtionship along and I said I would but that I needed a better job to help support us. My work history has been suspect the last couple of years, causing a lot of stress. But before that I had a steady job for over 10 years. I know I put to much emphasis on my career and not on her, but I thought our love would always be there.

At what point should I contact her? I am looking for a new job, but they take time. I'm concerned that she meet someone else .. she is already dating according to her.

Any advice is appreciated.