Jeeves

Thank you so much. That was some really good information. I will probably do what you say and just go back to where I came from. He "seemed" so great, but we know that was not the case. Please wish me luck and again I thank you so much. Jeeves

These were some really good replies. Thanks!! Funny how just talking and letting someone know you hurt can help. I don't think there is a female involved, its been mostly porn and not your average stuff either. I told him it was over through an email and blocked his address after I did some investigation and found his profile on a "animal vs women" site. He hadn't been on there in a year, but it sickened me and now I know what people mean when they say they feel dirty. I called a suicide hotline a bit ago......I have never done anything like that. I am a nurse and I can't even take care of myself right now. I feel so stupid, and yes he is very charming, but very emotionally and mentally abusive. Why did I choose him? I have always been independent and very level headed. He likes to pick fights with me and then ignore me for a few days and then I let him worm his way back in and so it goes....... I am going to have to get a life.....or I fear losing the one I have.

My husband of a whole 5 months has decided that he doesn't really like the married life. Of course, he blames me for all the problems we have. I moved to Arkansas from New Hampshire to marry him and to live here. He swears he still loves me, but we "can't" get along. He likes to talk about what he is going to do for our relationship, but when it comes to action he does nothing. Right now he is on his way back from flying to Denver to buy a car and drive it back. I didn't know that he was going until 1.5 days before he left. He also said that I had pissed him off, so no communication until he got back. I did not know that he suffers from anxiety, depression, and sexual addiction before we married. I have moved to a little house about 5 miles from him, I have no family here and very few friends. The kicker? I'm 42.........too old to be a fool, you would think. I can't eat, sleep, barely move...............I really hurt bad guys. Just wanted someone to know. Thanks. ](*,)