123noone

Oh my gosh i feel so much better. the nausea is gone and I told my mom and she didn't go crazy. She is going to help out. She wants me to move back with her and when the baby is born she will help out. I think I am getting over him (I havent seen or talked to him in a few weeks) and I want a life that has no bad stuff in it. I would rather just my baby and me happy than try to pretend to make a fake family. I really feel better and thanks for sharing you.

I am sorry i was a bit harsh..i find myself in a similar situation (he heard the news and ran) and I was really saying those things to myself.

I just want to have some kind of relationship with him..he wont see me, just some emails. your lucky/smart.... you seem to be done with him...how did you do that?

It is always possible to get pregnant unless you are abstaining and it is common knowledge that pulling out is not an effective method of bc and neither is the sponge. I hope you get past this "victim" stage soon for the good of your child. You had the choice all along not to get involved, not to stay involved, not to risk pregnancy. Don't you want your child and future child to have a role model who takes responsibility for her actions? Please focus on what is best for your child, whether you choose to terminate the pregnancy or otherwise. Right now you don't have the time to indulge yourself with romantic notions of what could have been or what could be with this man - you gave up that luxury when you chose to risk pregnancy.

I have to agree... I mean, was he talking about leaving his wife for you? Did you hope he would? If not... come on......a married man?(you will never win points on this...)...you should have/COULD HAVE been more careful, unless you sort of wanted this to happen...

Just wondering..how did you meet this guy? Did he wear a wedding ring? Did he dupe you from the beginning?

RUN.........me always want something more than what the have

love your children, teach them true love