OC_Rockabilly

No, the tiffs do not involve him hitting me. But he has called me names and thrown stuff and then apologizes and says he loves me and I that I make him so angry sometimes.

Can you really marry and stay with your first love? My boyfriend is my first love. We have our tiffs here and there and my friends tell me not to even deal with him because he is my "first" and there will be other guys. But honestly I don't want to take this relationship as a learing experience and move on! So is it possible...?

Take it from a girl...she is not interedated and does not care for you. I can't imagine ever doing that to anyone I care about. That's really messed up!

She's not over it. She's trying to be strong and by her getting rid of your stuff she feels it might help her so she doesn't have reminder of you. Maybe she is hoping you will tell her that you didn't mean it...and you do want to get married to her.